Comments on: Stories from 70 Weeks of Prayer – One Fine Day

By: Jody

Jody — Fri, 24 Feb 2023 00:45:59 +0000

I love this, Darla! My poor husband has our anniversary, Valentine’s Day and my birthday all within two weeks of each other and he always does such a great job of making me feel special on special days.

This year, a last-minute need came up in his family and he had to fly across country and be away for my birthday. He felt bad about that, but I felt just like you have expressed about your husband. I told him gifts and celebrations are nice, but he could be gone on my birthday guilt-free. I’m blessed to have something better than a husband who is here for me on all the special days–a husband who makes me feel special on all the ordinary days!

By: Darla Brown

Darla Brown — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 15:10:33 +0000

As a couple we do not celebrate Valentines Day. I don’t remember how or when this started. I think from the very beginning of our marriage. Most people say that’s a sad or bad thing, but I have to disagree. He surprised me with flowers two weekends ago ,I still have them in a vase right here where I can see them ( add sugar to your water ) .. They are extra special to me because I can count on one hand the number of times he has brought me flowers. As your figuring out he’s not the most romantic or thoughtful man on the planet but he’s mine and he’s here even after everything and it’s been 34 years. He took on my children when he didn’t have to, we have 8 grandchildren that he is there for everyday and he supports me in anything and everything I want to do. He goes to yard sales and thrift stores and will spend all day looking for the item I have in my vision even though he can’t see it or understand it. So to me those days are my valentines day. Everyday since we met (and he literally saved my life) is valentines day because he didn’t have to do what he has done and continues to do. I don’t need the candy or the flowers or a bear I just need to hear the keys in the door everyday.

By: Jody

Jody — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 01:05:58 +0000

In reply to Jeanette Henneberry. Thank you, my friend. I'm glad it meant so much to you and inspired you to share your thoughts with us.

By: Jody

Jody — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 01:04:40 +0000

In reply to Joyce. Your thoughtful comments are always so encouraging, Joyce. Thank you for sharing your heart and spirit.

By: Jeanette Henneberry

Jeanette Henneberry — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 20:06:18 +0000

I thought about this story awhile before commenting. Perspective is so powerful! So are expectations. It made me think of times I didn’t think I was being loved in the way I should be, and totally missed the countless little ways God was reminding me of His infinite and unchanging love. Often it is the little expressions through others that make the gift so sweet. Thank you for a story that brought perspective to a holiday, that otherwise could easily be considered a heartbreak.

By: Joyce

Joyce — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 01:19:49 +0000

What a beautiful comment, Shryle. You said it better than I could ever express. My heart opened and I shed tears reading both Jody’s story and your comment about your mom. There is nothing to add except appreciation in being in this group and this journey with you all.

By: Jody

Jody — Wed, 15 Feb 2023 18:07:18 +0000

Shyrle, thank you for sharing that with me. Bittersweet memories, indeed. Grateful for your faithful sweetheart and remembering the loss of your dad, with your mom sharing the day with you.

By: Shyrle BOVEE

Shyrle BOVEE — Wed, 15 Feb 2023 12:26:18 +0000

Wow, Jody, what a beautiful story. As one who has always had her sweetheart by her, I sometimes forget how hard this holiday can be for others. I see the blank stare from my 101 year old mom as she reminds me this is the day my dad passed away 16 years ago. It’s a holiday filled with memories, some bittersweet. I truly feel this should be published in a magazine. You have a God given gift with words. Thank you for sharing with me.